meet emily mitnick

creator of the eighth house

Paper cutout style image in shades of brown of woman with long hair sitting with left arm hugging bent left knee.

Hey, I’m Emily.

Since my days as a peer mediator on the elementary school playground, relationship dynamics have fascinated me, and in the years since, I’ve followed my curiosity to explore how humans relate to the built, natural, and social environment, navigate relationships within organizations and with work, repair and transform through intrapersonal and interpersonal conflict, and heal the connection between mind and body.

In parallel to these academic-educational and professional pursuits, I’ve journeyed through the depths of self to understand my own experience of relating – to myself and all that lies beyond. The methods of self study that have simultaneously been the most illuminating, supportive, and healing have been rooted in mindfulness, present-moment awareness, and somatics. I view this work as an ongoing effort and a lifelong adventure.

I came to mindful somatic healing first as a student. Like so many of us, I was in a nearly constant state of anxious dis-ease and utterly confused because my life looked incredible on paper. I had everything I wanted, so what, exactly, was the problem?

I arrived at my first yoga class full of nerves and ready to be the best. Looking around the room, I was struck by all of the different bodies and how they were – and were not – covered. I felt embarrassed thinking about how long it had taken me to figure out what to wear. When we began to move, I was startled to realize I couldn’t even touch my toes. Not even close. I panicked, hoping the instructor wouldn’t notice. But he did. He walked towards me. I braced myself for criticism, embarrassed again. Instead he knelt down by my mat and gently told me to try bending my knees. Then, he placed two blocks under my hands, bringing the “floor” to me.

“How does your body feel now?” he asked.

"My body feels…better,” I said.

My body feels.
My body feels.
My body feels.

And my healing journey began.

a few things I want you to know about me…

I am white, queer, poly, and non-disabled. My gender journey is ongoing, and I currently identify as a cisgender woman, though many parts of me are gender-expansive. My pronouns are she / her.

I relish time in nature and dancing barefoot in wet grass. I have a daily morning ritual of embodied movement. I see a somatic psychotherapist every Thursday evening. I love oat matcha lattes and making them for my people. I deeply value integrity and boundaries. I enjoy playing my guitar, singing, writing, and storytelling. I appreciate astrology and archetypal wisdom. I gravitate towards fluffy animals and flowering trees. I find great joy in relationship-building. I delight in foggy mornings, good novels, and meaningful conversation with those I hold dear.

I completed leadership coaching training at American University in Washington, DC, and went on to earn additional accreditation from the International Coach Federation as a Professional Certified Coach. I received my master’s degree from the University of Pennsylvania in city planning with a focus on community development, design strategy, and research, and my bachelor’s degree from Northwestern University. I hold certifications in Internal Family Systems, somatic attachment therapy, and embodied conflict resolution, and have also received training in the Hakomi Method. While I have come to believe it is unethical for me to teach yoga due to aspects of my social location, I hold a 200-RYT training certification and use my takeaways from the experience and prior teaching to inform how I hold the seat of practitioner-healer. Beyond my work as a mindful somatic practitioner at The Eighth House, I bring people development expertise to organizations via self-leadership coaching, conflict facilitation, and consulting.

land acknowledgment as shadow work

I am a settler on land stolen from the Ramaytush Ohlone people. While land acknowledgment is an Indigenous protocol, for settlers and guests alike, the act of land acknowledgment offers an invitation to confront our relationship to and with power and privilege, specifically within the context of colonialism. I tangibly support the rematriation of ancestral land, ecological restoration, and the revitalization of traditions sacred to the Ramaytush Ohlone people through quarterly payments of the Yunakin Land Tax.